If you have a loved one incarcerated, encourage them to take off their mask and go learn to play again
Prison is generally associated with isolation and loneliness, but it doesn’t have to be. When you have lost everything, including your freedom, you can still choose your thoughts, and more importantly your attitude. With the right attitude, if you choose, you can find joy anywhere. Coming to prison, I have found that games and sports are a great way to break your focus, so you have a chance to notice your journey and learn to enjoy that process. Games can also promote community and combat loneliness. Believe it or not, incarceration is a great place to test the waters and see what you are good at. It’s also a place to try things you may secretly have always wanted to try. This is not the time to sit and obsess about your mistakes, instead, revisit your desires, passions, and think about the things that bring you joy. Relish in the silly challenges and don’t trip about inadequacies, we all have them. So, if you have a loved one incarcerated, encourage them to take off their mask and go learn to play again. If you are on your way to prison, open up your mind to new possibilities and get ready